I dated a guy thats emotionally unavailable (possibly narcissistic too) and we broke up for about 2 months he's told everyone it didn't work because there was no love and I wasn't the one. Emotionally unavailable men can change if he wants to. So when he meets someone he's gonna want to change next time and he will and he'll think its because he found the right one and not coz of his actual issues. And everyone around him will think that too. He's also on this new buzz where he acts like hes only enjoying life now because I was holding him back.

I feel the urge to message him and confront him about this. I just want some acknowledgment of his own actions and some kind of remorse. I also feel like it would help me release some of the hurt.

However I'm also scared that this will make him angry and fuel him into dating someone new so soon.

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