I've been in the lifestyle for a few, I have met some great people, some I still chat with. I started out playing with single woman, then, some how married women, with hubby approval. I never thought I would enjoy playing with wives so much. I evolved even more and staying playing with cples, mainly with hubby watching, and some reclaiming the wife afterward.I tell new couples that the lifestyle can be very fun and stressful and the same time. If the marriage is storg and there is trust, real trust, the shy is the limit on the amount of enjoyment. The purpose of this post is to get people opinion on the lifestyle. The biggest problem, my opinion is, there isn't enough couples, for couples and single male; and there is enough single female for couples and male. A the respect level is kinda low.