We’ve recently shared posts about our first Hot Wife experiences but it’s mostly been from my husband’s POV. I figured it was time for me to share my side of things!

We entered the lifestyle about a year ago and up until this point it’s solely been couples swaps. My husband has always had a Hot Wife fantasy and over the summer I would find a guy I thought was attractive and tell him about them. (gym guy, construction guy, etc..) Mainly fantasizing about different scenarios to each other in bed and what those men would think if they knew we were doing that.

I enjoy taking pictures and posting to Reddit, it’s fun to share and receive comments. I’ve kept my eye on a few men in our DM’s along the way and with my husband’s knowledge, have messaged a couple of them back just to say hi. At the time we weren’t looking to act on anything Hot Wife so the conversations didn’t go far.

This week I was sent out of state to a work conference and the week(s) leading up, my husband mentioned quite a few times that he thought it would be so hot for me to find a man I like, bring him back to my hotel room, and do whatever I’d like. I kept that in mind but was never 100% that I would act on it.

I get to the conference and night one was a bust. I kept my eye out but was having trouble finding anyone I liked. The next morning I met a man at the elevator bank, waiting to leave the hotel. I thought he was cute and could tell he liked me too. Being my first time even entertaining anything Hot Wife I had no idea what to say or if I even wanted to. We walked separate directions and wound up in the registration line directly behind one another. I turned around and mentioned seeing him at the hotel, we gave flirty vibes and obvious small talk. I text my husband that I found someone I might be interested in and would chat him if I saw him again. Husband was so excited. Unfortunately I don’t know how, because he was staying in my hotel and on my floor, but I never saw him again. So going out again that night, night two was also a bust.

Night 3 was the night. The conference threw a big bash for us so the booze was free and the party vibes were strong. I was in the mood and determined to make this work. Kept my eye out for a man I liked all evening. Towards the end of the bash they had a surprise concert so during that concert I hung back and talked to the men I saw that I thought were attractive. One finally hit and he gave back strong flirting vibes back. After a bit of close and nuzzling ear to mouth small talk, because it was loud, I asked him if he had ever heard of Hot Wifeing. He said yes and I asked if he had ever experienced anything like that. He said no. So I told him that my husband and I were into that and asked if he would want to come back to my hotel room with me and if he would be okay if we took videos or pics of our experience for my husband. He said yes.

In the hotel room I got out of my clothes and into something more comfortable. I walked over to him and we stood and made out for a bit, laying me back on the bed he kissed down my body and went down on me.

I could feel pretty immediately that we weren’t meshing. I communicated ways to make it more enjoyable for me but with me taking a video and requesting different moves it felt off.

I put the phone down and told him I wasn’t going to get there and that I wanted to give him head. He laid back on the bed and I went to town. He was soft which was discouraging but being in the LS for a while I know that being asked to film things and everything being brand new and knowing I had a husband was probably all just very overwhelming to him. So I didn’t quit and tried to bring the mood back up. I really do enjoy giving head because I feel I’m pretty good at it. I like to impress men with a very sloppy very sexy blowjob.

My regular moves were not doing the trick so things eventually fizzled out. Believe me. I gave it a good try, multiple times. But things were not vibing and he was mid soft/hard the whole time. We weren’t clicking.

Fast forward to Wednesday night of this week. My husband, was reminiscing on the Tuesday night interaction. And me being dissatisfied with the first time Hot Wife encounter, I went back through our Reddit messages to see if I wanted to reach out to anyone.

“James” immediately came to mind. I mentioned wanting to text James to my husband and he said “do it”. I sent a sexy pic and a message asking how he was doing. My husband text that night and said “If James is available tomorrow you should fuck him over lunch” (husband was out of town, we had overlapping conferences and I was on PTO). Knowing my husband was into it I started to get excited.

James messaged back that next morning and we asked him to verify himself. Verification came through and I text my husband asking how he felt. I reminded him of what he told me the night before and he asked me if I wanted to. Of course I said yes. He saw my eagerness and agreed that if James was available, that the interaction would be super hot.

James happened to be available so we agreed to meet at a bar in public. He showed up and was exactly like his pics. Called husband on the way to our house to connected with him one last time. We were both very excited for what was about to go down.

To say James didn’t disappoint is an understatement. He had experience in the lifestyle, with threesomes and Hot Wives, so he knew the drill. We immediately clicked and both parties were very attracted to each other.

We started making out and vibed immediately. He loves to please and was very open to my feedback and we made adjustments as needed. We took videos, played and i hope were equally as impressed with each other. Once things winded down I messaged my husband and told him what an incredible experience I just had and shared our videos.

I wasn’t done..I wanted more. I was so turned on by the entire experience and the fact that this time was so much more successful. I asked my husband if he would be okay if I asked James to come back over the next day. He loved that I wanted it again and agreed. Husband sent a few video angle requests and James sent an outfit request. Oversized sweatshirt with nothing underneath.

He came over the next day before my husband was back in town and we connected once more. Again, I was on cloud 9. Our experience was hot, sweaty, raw, and we moved all over the place. I like to give just as much as I get so we were putting in the work for sure. I’ll share a few screen shots from our experience in a different post.

Unfortunately my husband was traveling that day and I didn’t get to rehash any of my experience with him until he arrived back home that evening. Once we put our kids to bed we made a couple drinks and talked on the couch. Both playing and talking. Sharing the new videos of the day, we were so turned on. Experiencing new men is incredible but reconnecting with him after the fact was even more so.

We once saw a post saying the LifeStyle is a sexual buffet, and you get to pick and choose what you like as needed. We have LOVED couples swinging thus far and getting a taste of Hot Wifeing was yet another incredible experience.

More to come!