I’m just looking for helpful advice or suggestions. My SO and I have been together for 26 years and married for 19. We own and operate our business for 17 years. We have always worked very well together. Definitely have had ups and downs with finding boundaries at the workplace. My SO has gone through some substantial growth changes to the point where I don’t really know who he is anymore. He treats our staff with the utmost respect which he should, but the problem I am having is he still treats me as though I’m not as important as them. Perhaps because he knows I’m not going anywhere and staff could quit. I experience imposter syndrome at work around my husband. It feels horrible. I feel as though I can’t do anything right and I’m scared to say stuff in case it comes out wrong. Is this a me problem? Or is there some way I can approach this to my husband? He has mentioned several times before that he feels he does all the work, but he must fail to see the amount of work I am actually doing. Why does a spouse sometimes feel like an imposter. He does have extreme focus on what he is doing all the time now and I feel I’m put on the shelf and ignored. He listens to motivational podcasts all the time. Even when we’re going for a walk or driving in the car - he will put his AirPods in. I agree with motivational stuff, but o do think it’s possible to go too far. I feel my marriage is strained and I feel a great disconnect. I feel like I have to walk on egg shells all the time I want to be my true self, but I struggle to do so.