I know this probably isn't the greatest subreddit to post in but I need help with this. So basically I have 3 girl friends. One of then got involved with a guy and everything seemed fine. The guy was ok from what I heard at first. He would hangout with my friends and such and everything seemed fine. I personally never met him. A few months back tho the girl who got involved with him was apparently getting harrased and stalked by him. I urged her to stay away from him and all other sorts of advice. The guy went away for college and I thought everything was ok. Until recently when I found out she INVITED HIM TO HER BIRTHDAY PARTY. WTFFFFFFF?! I could not believe this shit. The guy harrased and stalked you yet you invited him? Makes no sense to me. Even worse one of the other girls is still friends with him. If I was in any of their shoes I would have cut him out of my life for good. It just doesn't make sense to me why he is still in their lives despite him showing just how bad of a guy he is. Do any of you have any idea of why they still keep him around? If you guys need any more context then let me know. I wrote this in a rush.