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[Question] when doing yoni massage/body mapping are you ment to use oil inside the vagina or swap to water bases lube.
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So we are both still new to sex and he's been doing tantra to calm me down on account of vaginismus.

When you actually move from a body massage to a yoni massage do you use oil inside the vagina and around the vula? As i want to have sex after but we use condoms (can't use the pill for hormonal reasons).

1) is coconut oil the best to use? And do people get it as the hard white blocks or is there special massage specific to it.

2) is it better to wash hands and then use a water based lube for the vulva and vagina massage.

3) if you do use oil inside then how long does the oil stay inside you aka how long until it is safe to use normal condoms again.

3.5) which non latex based condoms are good.

3.55) or is it better to take a shower post the body massage and just do a yoni massage with no lube at all just to be super safe.

4) more of a technique thing. When you get to a numb spot in the vagina what do you actually do to make it sensitive again. Keep rubbing it in circles?

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