Recently, over the past few weeks, I have been looking into NEOs and become very interested in how to exactly have them. I spend a good deal of time looking at many threads which I'm sure many of you have also read, and had my first mild NEO not long after implementing certain strategies.

However, after this one instance of success, I have coke across a certain roadblock. Or a bunch? Not sure. Basically, while I'm practicing, after I have gone for a consistent 10 minutes or so, I start to build up that sexual excitement, and try to "ride the waves" and stay at higher periods of excitement at a time. While doing this though, I start having that pulsing feeling that you get while ejaculating, except I'm not ejaculating. Is that normal? And eventually, after however much longer, I end up just losing all sexual excitement like I had just ejaculated. And I just have to stop because my dick doesn't let me keep going.

Is this normal, part of the learning process? And why does my sex drive just leave for no reason? Any pointers (pun intended) and advice is very appreciated. I apologize if this is not fit for this subreddit, this is my first thread I've ever posted actually.