Y’all… is the quality of “SB”s on the legacy sites so low that SDs are truly resorting to social media?! It’s not really a question but more of a “wtf you’re kidding right?!”

I received 3 different requests in the past 2 months on these platforms asking if I’d ever consider having an SD… each time I declined and thanked them for the consideration. Also, I have an amazing SD and truth be told, idk how some are able to have multiple at once, it’s like 2-3 full time jobs that you have to manage. No, I am not saying my situation feels like a full time job, nor an obligation, it’s actually far from it. I’m incredibly lucky and appreciate that I have a true friendship and connection with my SE. I’ve have previous arrangements and they felt exactly like that.

Sorry ADHD rant over, but is this the new way to find a SB? Has this ever actually work for anyone? I personally felt like each screamed scam, but I could be wrong.

Thank you for reading my random thoughts of ADHD Ted talk.

Also please be nice in the comments. I truly am just curious.