I met my SD a month ago, we have a 15-years age gap and we're still getting to know each other. I'm trying my best to keep things slow, since it's my first SR, but I feel so content and fulfilled that I want to tell the whole world! I hope we both do our best to have a great time.

Growing up spoiled by family, naturaly I tended to navigate that way into vainilla relationships. I always give back the same energy people give me. The thing is, my first (and last) relationship ended because I felt like I didn't got what I was looking for, I became the only one putting effort on it so eventually I gave up.

I'm still getting used to the sudden gifts after briefly mentioning my needs, but all of the rest (dinners, allowance, intimacy) it's exactly what I was looking for. I told this to one of my closest friends that's really open minded and wanted to be a SB too, and she supported me. But I'm just so happy experiencing something different, where I am treated like I deserve, that I feel like the rest it is missing out hahah so that's why I'm sharing it here so I won't tell anyone else (I'm really bad at keeping secrets)

Any tips/life advice/recommendations to keep things great?