I'm frustrated with this market. lived here for 10 years
not really looking for advice. guess I'm just venting. been a year on seeking 34 male , I didn't think i was a picky guy from the girls i see out in my daily life but a lot of the girls in my 50m radius profiles are pretty unappealing(not just looks, personalities, and requirements) and the 15 dates I did go on they are newbies or young or both and don't know what to do.

or psychos!!!

also I'm sure all the "good" girls get scooped by rich older guys that work in defense contracting or politics or law in Washington DC. and moving my radius out to the boony countryside of VA PA and MD is even worse yikes. I even exposed to date all races and that doesn't rly help. so I started flying! I've had the best bang for my buck in las Vegas and then Tampa Fl as 2nd place. I would say tampa I'm still settling ..looks wise but the treatment and long term pot is there.

considering upgrading to snowbirding somewhere north of MI...never been but any feedback would be appreciated. considering this because I assume it may have same tampa vibes but higher quality without LA Miami cost of living. I rather live in a trailer and spoil my sweety than spend 1mil on a house and not have enough to reward the person by my side.