As someone who has had a couple sugar relationships, I am not exactly new to the challenges that many SDs face. Things like being out-bid or not fully finding chemistry are not things I take to heart, everyone has their own desires for this lifestyle. For what it’s worth, I don’t lowball PPMs.

My largest struggle has been finding SBs who are open to the types of dates I enjoy: Things like going to live concerts, or more active vacations that involve a reasonable degree of historical sightseeing. I have always enjoyed going to the beach, or doing tourist-style activities, but I prefer to do a little more than just those things.

I have included these interests on Seeking, and it seems like the audience is limited. It may be a product of my location, or other factors I’m not considering.

Any advice from either SBs or SDs on how to better approach these things, or is it simply that I have interests for dates that SBs don’t often find worthwhile, and thus I need to adjust my dates? Thanks in advance.