I’ve been in the bowl on/off for 4 years, and I never really thought about seeing it from the SD’s pov. Why? Because I’ve never had a shortage of messages, nor do I consider women as competition or foes. Today curiosity struck me. I did it for shits and giggles.

So I made a fake SD account (which took less than 3 minutes.) when the homepage hit, I Iiterally said Holy SHIT. The first profile was an Asian girl who was pregnant. Her entire profile was asking men to fetishize her ethnicity, and begging men to use her up 🫠

Here are my other findings:

50%-very obvious escorts, or leading with ass and tits on display. No classy dresses, or demeanor. (Nothing wrong with that!) But it’s interesting, and explains why finding long term is challenging when men can easily meet a new girl willing to hookup at any moment.

20%- Not the least bit attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. but sloppy, over filtered pics, messy background, dirty mirror, and look like they smoke 3 packs a day. Come on ladies, if you want a man to blow a bag on you, atleast brush your hair.

20%- Women who seemed rude, uninviting, or would make terrible company even as a friend. Tag line was something along the lines of “I’m kinky”, “I deserve”, “I’m better than your ex”. Ummmm girls.. we can do better than that. Being crass, or a pickme isn’t a good approach.

10%- normal women. Women who I, (a straight woman) would even message. Very pretty, seemed friendly, and I would spoil to death if I were a SD.

So yes, men CERTAINLY have variety on there. Every color, shape, or size, like a candy store. Men constantly brag about that on this forum, but the quality doesn’t add up.

**This post is not to bash women. It’s just to answer some of your curious and intrusive thoughts. The SD’s that will buy you a new car, take you on trips, and give you $xx,xxx a month are becoming obsolete because we’ve set the bar so low for ourselves.