Hi All!

I (she) am solo with a taste of Relationship Anarchist My partner/dom (he) is solo with strong RA leanings. Pretty much every detail of our relationship,has been thought out, negotiated, and sometimes renegotiated. It's worked really well over the 8 months or so since we've been seeing each other. We've had a gradually escalating but somewhat informal D/s dynamic throughout.

Today, we broached the idea of doing a trial collaring. He's had a collared sub before, in a different dynamic and within a more hierarchical LTR. I've never been collared.

We are a little stumped on how to navigate the change to intentional dynamic (and all the ownership pieces that go along with it) while still maintaining SoPo/RA ideals. It's not just other relationships we don't want to affect, but our own personal autonomy as well. It's something of a thought experiment, and me being me I need really practical examples in order for it to make sense. Anyone have experience here?