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So around April this year visited my sister home when she gave birth to baby girl so I went to help her with her baby, I live there for 2 weeks , everything was fine until one night her husband wake me up from my sleep and asking me to come down there ( he was sleeping in floor and I was sleeping in bed with my sister ,we were sleeping in same room because it was one bedroom house) I thought he mistake me as his wife so I told him she sleeping in the right side but no he kept begging me to come down on floor so I said no then he told me "please understand my situation" ( understand what that he can't get sex because my sister was pregnant this whole time now that she gave birth she would be bleeding for the month) so he thought if not wife then wife' sister... Oh god I was so terrified at that moment that my heart starts racing so fast I scream so my sister woken up and he went back to sleep, I couldn't tell my sister about that cause she's sensitive person and just gave a birth so it would have been hard for her to process that so I kept that to myself and left her home next day.
Ignorant? 𤣠says the person saying my response was ignorant. And yeah, if it wouldâve happened then yeah it would be assault.. But it didnât. So itâs not assault. And you are correct, in todayâs world, most men donât need a wince of hope to think they have a chance. Some do take the bare minimum attention and take it up about 3-7 notches, then it becomes creeper/perv type. But whatâs ignorant is to sit here and try and tell me that âallâ men are like that. Because they arenât. Thereâs always a group of bad apples in an entire batch. Thatâs life unfortunately. But whatâs wrong with trying to take the high road first? He technically didnât physically do anything wrong. His words were alarming yes, and his intentions were completely uncalled for and wrong. But he didnât physically harm her. She has all the right in the world to react the way she did, yes. But donât assume the absolute worst before diving deeper into the story. Which Iâm assuming thereâs more going on than what she only typed out. Now, if he does continue (even one more time, just slightly), Iâd definitely have a civil and calm conversation with your sister and let her know what is happening. But the last thing you wanna do is totally trash your sisters husband straight to her face right off the bat. Because then it might escalate too quick and you wonât even be able to get your point across.
Tough situation, but thatâs not sexual assault. Just donât do anything to make him even think he could possibly have a chance with you and hopefully he wonât take it any further. Most men just need even a wince of hope to think they have a chance with a woman. Then it could go downhill pretty quickly.
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Never once did I ever insensate the blame was on her. Not even close. It was stating the least harmful way for everybody in the situation to handle it without putting direct blame on anybody. And I never said the blame should be anywhere but on him. Read a little closer to my comment before trying to blow somebody up and put words into their mouth.