Not really sure if this belongs in r/sexover30 but thought I'd try. I've (34/M) recently started a relationship with a woman (27/F) and she loves sexting. She enjoys reading what I'll do to her and when I'll do it, what I love about her, and what I wanna try.

Here's the problem. My last relationship was pretty vanilla in this category and we never sexted. I feel like I almost have no clue what I'm doing. She seems to enjoy them, but I don't know if I'm sending too many or not enough, or if I should even go more NSFW.

Do you enjoy sexting? If so, should I sext frequently throughout the day or just at night? Is there a limit between sexts and "normal" texts? What type of sexts get you excited?

EDIT: I do talk with her about what she likes and what she wants. But I guess I'd like to surprise her and just curious how others feel about sexting.