When she told me I just said “that’s not a problem, it’s very common” in the hopes she would be able to tell it’s not a problem for me. We talked about it and she said she’s accepted it and just try’s to enjoy everything else.

Now obviously she’s the person to talk to when it comes to things she enjoys, and what I can do to pleasure her even though she can’t orgasm with a partner, but I’m wondering if any other women are in the same boat as her and have found ways to orgasm with their partner? Was it an anxiety thing, or what? She can orgasm when she masturbates (I think she uses a vibrator).

I apologize if I offend anyone with this question, but I know it’s fairly common and want to hear other women’s experiences.

Edit: obviously we can throw the vibrator into the mix, but I think she said that doesn’t do the trick when with a partner.