I feel like I have a mountain of hurdles preventing me from successfully performing oral sex on my well-endowed husband and it’s affecting my self esteem. I have a severe case of tmj disorder, a tongue tie and upper/lower lip ties, dry mouth from medication, sensory sensitivity from neurodivergence, and a husband with above average size.

I’m interested to hear advice from others with similar hurdles, any product or technique suggestions that can help, or creative ways to successfully perform bjs on larger sizes. Also, I’m wondering if it takes a lot of practice? I don’t have a lot of sexual experience prior to my marriage and my husband has never bothered me about oral sex due to my condition, but I also don’t want him to have to go the rest of his life without it.