Do you crave a real connection that can only exist in a Dom and sub dynamic?
I know I do. It runs pretty deep in my veins, in my heart, in my imagination. The give and take of power, pain, service, friendship is poetic.
If you’re only here for sexual activity? I’m not you’re Dom. If you’re here to build a unique connection built on trust, respect, safety, sex, and consent, then let’s see if we vibe.
Are you into the mental aspects of BDSM? Humiliation, Degredation, objectification, mentorship and praise? Are you into some pain, nothing too heavy but heavy enough to know you’ve been punished? Are you service oriented? Do you want a mentor, someone who wants to help guide and help you grow as a person and sub? If you’re smiling in your heart or on your face, then you’ve probably answered yes to many of the questions. Not all are deal breakers but if the general mentality is there- we should discuss.
Here is how we work, my wife (who is an amazing woman) is open minded, somewhat kinky, bi-curious and leans towards the sub side is open to me having a regular, service oriented sub. We’re open to someone joining our household, or simply be here regularly.
I find the entire idea, deeply…poetic. It’s romantic in a way, without the hearts and flowers but instead paddles and discipline.
Kinks are plentiful but not as important as the give and take.
If you got a warm feeling in your body right now…then perhaps it’s a sign to say hello.
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