Hey team. It should go without saying but here I am saying it: please respect people's preferences!

If they're not explicitly looking for men, don't send a message asking if they are. This goes for straight men or queer men, just please respect people's preferences.

If they don't ask for a dick pic DON'T FUCKING SEND ONE. I've had to say this so many times I've lost count. Cut that shit out. Your dick isn't that impressive, I PROMISE you. If someone consents to having dick pics sent to them, it will be in their post. Otherwise, assume they don't consent. That's how that works. Consent must be explicit, not your DMs with grody cock pics.

If you get a dick pick or a pic collector hitting you up in your chats, the best thing is to simply

Block them and move on.

We cannot ban everyone that sends unsolicited messages, that's 99% of men on Reddit, unfortunately.

Just... be better y'all. We all get more out of this sub when it's full of genuine respectful people.