Hey there fellow redditor!

Hope you're having a good weekend so far and got a little bit of sun and saw some colorful flowers out there!

I've been in San Diego for almost 3 years now and have been struggling making friends. Not in a very good space and time in life to date seriously with that kind of expectations, so wanted to post here and see if there's someone looking for the same and may want to connect/talk.

About me: I'm 31 years old, Indian Ethnicity, 5'9", 160lbs, fit and like to work and stay active. I like to read, watch movies a lot, play video games, draw and paint/craft, cook, explore coffee shops, museums and beaches. I'm a vegetarian, non-smoker, occasional drinker, but definitely do not have any issues with your lifestyle, obviously. I'm politically left leaning, but mostly neutral and open minded, except scientific facts, and safety of children in every way. I also enjoy long nuanced chats about STEM topics, philosophy or life in general. My outdoor activity is walking, especially around the beach. A bit of a nerd and introvert-ish. I also have 2 cats and currently have a roommate.

Apart from all of the above, I'm DDF, vaccinated, laid back, honest, communicative and open. I do seek similar people in these aspects, especially communication. I have anxiety issues, so I'd rather be told if someone doesn't want me than be ghosted. I can respect that, but getting ghosted gives me pretty bad anxiety.

Looking to go on dates, try new food, do activities with/hangout and have sex with. Seeking a friend first and formost, as I said, benefits are optional and contingent on a few factors, like mutual attraction and being okay not being committed to a relationship. Not that I'm afraid of commitment, I'm not at a place where I would want things to progress too far off.

I'm looking for someone who is passionate about something or a few things. Someone vocal and communicative, looking for similar things as I am. Has hobbies, varying interests that we can participate in together. Consistently available as a friend and mutual support. Someone to cook, eat, watch movies and play video games, draw or do activities with.

Contingent on if you are also seeking benefits: HWP or at least working towards a healthy body AND mind. Mutual attraction is important. I will share pics of course. Someone who also enjoys receiving oral, I love going down a lot. Communicative in bed as well and has some kinks to share. I'm generally a kink Dom. Has an active libido to match and hopefully can host at least some times. We can work on the last part if vibes work.

If you've read this far and are still interested, I would love hear back from you. If you have any questions, criticisms or comments, those are welcome as well.

Either way, hope you have a wonderful rest of the week and get to treat yourself in some way.