I’m always the first one, sometimes the only one, to fall in love. It’s gotten to the point where I’m afraid of those feelings now because they come so strong and so early it’s guaranteed the other person doesn’t feel the same yet. And then, because I feel so strongly, I’m afraid I start pressuring the other person to reciprocate and that could lead to them pulling away. I’m 22 and if you want to check out my profile you’ll see what my body looks like. I’m definitely desirable to men and women, at least physically. My problem is, I’ve seldom met people my age that want a committed, be that open or poly, relationship. People my age just don’t seem to have the time anymore. Am I doing something wrong here? I’ve tried dating apps only to a dismal end. Reddit has gotten me my most recent relationship, but as usual I’ve caught feelings when the other person hasn’t gotten there yet. Maybe can’t get there ever. Anyway I was just hoping to get some advice.

Cheers.