We have 3 young children, hefty mortgage and both work in health care so stress is up there. Kids are exhausting and I understand how it’s happened but after years of trying to be supportive and not being pushy I’m growing resentful and grumpy. She has post pregnancy confidence issues but any attempts to compliment or reassure her they arnt an issue is a argument. I’ve attempted to free up time so she can get some alone time at a gym ends in a argument. Buying her tickets to get some gf time with friends she gives them away. I’m a practical person when it comes to fixing problems but any attempts to help fix this just make it worse and I’ve given up and not sure how long I can keep going. Has any one gone thru this successfully and can offer some advice ?