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I've been married 20 years and from the time we were teens we were regular 1-2 a week. In 2022, things changed to 1-2 a month. Zero in August. No not cheating. I know that for a fact.
Maybe I should have been clearer on the "sex" part. It us a need for me because of the connection we have while in the act. It's hard to explain but for those who have experienced it under. That feeling/experience/connection is what is lacking a great deal.
She isn't going through any hormonal things. We are very strong with our communication. I agree this is a problem for both of us but only I am concerned.
Understand, that life gets in the way but that's not it. We have had no issues going out on our own without kids. The drop-off is considerable.
We haven't had out trip since before the Covid BS. Last one we took wasn't as eventful.
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She's fine with the frequency and I'm clearly not. I've always had a higher sex drive but the sudden off switch with her is puzzling. I feel loved but as a man I have my needs, expressed those needs, and the response is "that's your problem." And that's concerning.