So we call each other whenever there's a chance and there is obviously chemistry between us. We also like each other already. We're taking it slow and that's what we both want. However, I overthink a lot. And she doesn't reply for hours at times while I on the other side would immediately respond to her messages. I am okay if she doesn't reply the way I do. But I just wish she would at least tell me why. Like can you give me updates? I don't know if this is okay, that I am feeling this way. I am also torn between ending it already just so I won't feel this way anymore. Or should I give this a chance still? What should I do just so I wouldn't get so anxious every single time?

What happens whenever I get so anxious is that I can't do anything. I used to read, work out, do my chores, study, and hang out with other people before I met her. I wanted to maintain a routine and these things comprise that. But when I met her and the inconsistent talks happened, I started feeling so scared and insecure. I ended up not being able to do most of these things anymore because I would end up thinking so much. I would wonder why she wouldn't reply like doesn't she like me as much, stuff like that. I do acknowledge that this isn't her fault at all. And that I might need to seek help regarding my attachment issues.

Should I just end it and save both of us? I don't know what to do anymore.

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TL;DR: I have this girl who I like who also likes me. But whenever she doesn't reply for hours without telling me why, I end up getting so anxious and not being able to do anything at all.