We've gone on three great dates, each lasting about six hours (we talk a lot, no sex). The last date, though, she completely broke down and told me about her bout with depression, which included cutting herself and over eating. I recently got out of a similiar relationship some months ago with a woman who was a "hot mess."

I don't know what I should do. I like her but at the same time I have these reservations, these fears that her baggage will weight heavy on me. I feel like a bad person if I don't persue her because of those issues - she often asks me "do you look at me different now?" I don't but at the same time I do.

I dont know. I can't tell if I should back out now or double down on the good things we have.