Hey all. I'm planning to buy a sex toy for my wife as a Christmas gift. We both are noobs (newbies) when it comes to this part of life.

• Apologies if this is against the rules, I had nowhere else to go *

Why am I doing this? I feel that she deserves the equal pleasure and orgasms that we (men) get so easily. I know it's tough in women but I want her to feel that amazing feeling.

What have I researched? - I've come down to two choices: Vibrator (Le Wand) or Clit sucker (Satisfyer Pro 2) - vibrator is usually good and Safe choice but sucking is a whole different level which is why I am seeking your advice.

A few things about her: - she doesn't let me suck down there. She never reveals the reason why. - she loves when I rub her clit with my finger in a side to side motion or circular motion.

I am open to answering other questions if you have and would really appreciate your guidance.