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My boyfriend recently got a new job and I am still unemployed and I’m worried that he will find someone smarter and better than me at his new job. His new job has EXTREMELY smart people, like definitely way smarter than me and I know my bf likes smart people and now I’m paranoid that he might find someone more compatible there. We have been dating for over 4 years and I know he loves me but he has made comments in the past talking about how smart his other female friends are (she went to a different uni) and that always lingered in the back of my mind.
I don’t think that I’m dumb or stupid but lately I’ve been feeling this way too much due to this situation. I’m very happy for him but can’t shake the feeling that he will think I am not good enough for him.
He has never made me question his loyalty (other than the fact that he commented on other girls pictures years ago, but we kinda? addressed that). I just can’t help feeling dumb & need some advice.
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