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26m 25f how do I help my girlfriend with her trauma without ruining our relationship?
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Hey guys, how’s it going. I’ve had this girlfriend for about 2 years now and while I do absolutely adore her our sex life is less than ideal. She has quite a lot of sexual trauma from past partners and is currently working through it all. The problem comes as one of the ways she wants to work through this all is have an open discussion about what has happened to her with these partners. I want to help her however I can so she both feels better about these things that have happened and so we can improve our sex life but I just don’t know how comfortable I am hearing about all of that, and I don’t want it to adversely effect our relationship, I have no issue with her past it’s just hearing the details seems like a lot to deal with. Please give me some advice on how I can deal with this situation.

Thanks in advance.

TLDR, my girlfriend wants to discuss her previous partners with me and I don’t know how comfortable I am with that but want to help.

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