My ex filed for divorce after a 27yr marriage. Here is some background, I spent a lot of energy building my career. I progressed to be a President of a small Regional Bank. I would send my family (3 daughters) on vacations and I would stay behind. I provided a very good life for my family, 2-country club membership's and a vary nice home. I admit that I became emotionally distant. When I saw my family starting to distance themselves, I ran to alcohol and drugs.. Not smart. I am know 15yrs clean and sober and I work and volunteer as an addiction counselor and a peer advocate.

My ex blocked all communications, social media, phone text and emails. As a result of the divorce, my children have talked to me and also blocked communication. I have 5-grandchildren I never met.

I went to counseling and "radical acceptance" is what was suggested.

I am lost, hurt, and everything I see or hear reminds me of what I lost. Should I just go to our marital home and ask for a sit-down?