Usually our sex life is amazing and we both love it, she's more on the submissive side and I'm more dominant but we both don't mind switching it up from time to time.

In the beginning of our relationship I was scared of sex as a whole after been SA before. It look long until I fully trusted my girlfriend enough for her to be more dominant with me.

Last week however, I was horny and she was too, I was barely awake to process anything tho and she was surprisingly dominant. After sex I immediately started feeling sad, slightly scared and in need of comfort but I couldn't speak bc the words couldn't come out.

I'm scared, I don't want to ruin anything, I want to tell her so we can work it out but I'm afraid of making her feel bad. How do I best handle this?