Who is this guy:

I'm 36, jack of all trades, master of none, finishing school and in my final semester before applying to anything and everything in the webdev field, or trades again by the looks of it, or trucking. Looks wise, Mr. Clean with an early stage dad bod, but back in the gym to get back to my toned self. 6'0, 166 lbs, shaved head and eastern euro looking face. Former lifter, but injured wrist a while back , so if you're also building your summer body this fall/winter, maybe we could lift/workout together too? I've got out of a monogamous vanilla relationship at the end of last year, so am now looking to deep dive all my kinky desires, slowly, steadily and thoroughly.

What I am Looking For:

Communication first and foremost. I don't care your level of experience, as long as you are okay with mine, or lack their of. But as we get to know each other, I'd like it to be over the course of good conversation, you don't need to write as much as I did by any means (although I love thorough texts), but I don't want "hey" or "do whatever you want to me, when are you free"

I am looking for a guy, girl or trans people of all stripes. I am a pansexual guy who has mostly dated guys, but am attracted to people not bodies/genitals, so its always about vibe and connection first rather than body stats. With that said, I would rather my partner and I be closer to skinny/fit than obese.

But I digress!

So if this sounds like anything that fits within your borders of desires, and you're looking for a ltr/situationship, feel free to reach out! Would love to hear more than just your kinky wants and needs, I would love to hear about your hobbies and interests you'd like to be able to share while we aren't covered in sweat and sin ;) If/when it does come to sex, I am not rushing it, whenever you feel comfy we can cross that bridge, I am more than fine waiting well beyond 3 dates, but ideally not 3 months. Again, all about vibe, nothing more.

BUT

When it does come to it, heres the kinky side of the post:

Kinks:

Full disclosure, I am very well read on kinks but am almost completely without practice. I have done a few edging and sex sessions with bondage, but outside of that, its been very vanilla.

As for what I am into (copied from fetlife page):

Aftercare, Age Play, Anal, Anal Beads, Anal Hooks, Anal Sex, Analingus, Ass Play, Ass to Mouth, Ass worship, Bareback, Begging, Belt Whippings, Biting, Blindfolds, Blow Jobs, Body Worship, Bondage, Breath Play, Candle Wax, Caning, Chains, CNC, Cocksucking, Collar and Lead/Leash, Control, Crops, Cuckold, Cuckolding, Cuckqueen, Cunnilingus, Daddy/little, Degradation, Discipline, Edge Play, Erotic Massage, Exhibitionism, Eye Contact, Face Slapping, Facials, Fear, Flashing, Flogging, Gags, Torture, Worship, Hair Pulling, Handcuffs, Humiliation, Kneeling, Lingerie, Master/Slave, Masturbation, Mind Fucks, Master/slave, Oral Sex, Orgasm Denial, Pain, Public Play, Punishment, Role Play, Rope, Rope Play, Sadism, Sadomasochism, Sensual Domination, Sex In Public, Sexual Slavery, Shibari, Silk, Slapping, Spanking, Spitting, Spreader Bars, Squirting, Strap-ons, Suspension, Swallowing, Swinging, Switching, Talking Dirty, Tearing off Clothing, Tears, Throat Fucking, Tit Fucking, Tongue Sucking, Tongues, Total Power Exchange, Toys, Verbal Humiliation and Degradation, Voyeurism, Watersports, Wax, Wax Play, Whipping, Whips

But I am also a daddy/dom that loves to please. If it turns you on, I want to learn how to best provide it to you. I am willing to try and explore any and all of your kinks, from age play to CNC, I am looking to explore any authoritative role that gets us deeper into our kinky needs and desires.

I also used to post solo themed nude stuff on reddit way back before onlyfans, would be kinda hot to make short videos and pictures, but only if we're both into/open to it, and after we are very comfortable with each other.

Also none of my kinks are set in stone. If we have any overlap, I am 100% willing to play within our overlap and not push any boundaries, so don't feel like you if you aren't into enough for us to have a good time together!

Disclaimer

I am also dedicated to ensuring a safe and comfortable enviorment for both of us. I want discussions before, during and after about our desires, limits and expections, along with aftercare to ensure that everything that transpired lived up to those expectations and stayed within limits. Whatever we do explore is at a slow and steady pace, with communication with words, safewords, or verbal/non-verbal queues to ensure there is no misunderstandings and everything is above board. Kinky will ideally be explored after we get comfortable enough with vanilla sex, and trust is truly earned and expected from both of us.

Happy hunting!

Daddy J