https://imgur.com/a/j4iSzH1

I (32M) had this extremely unpleasant conversation, and it made my skin crawl. Someone that thinks they're special, that we'll make an exception, and approaches the entire thing as if it's a checklist of requirements to get laid.

When someone posts that they're looking for something, don't think that you're a special exception. They know what they're looking for, what they want, what they desire. If you aren't it, move along.

The ONLY instance where you should entertain the idea of being an exception is if you meet all of their preferences, but aren't available for a specific date. And even then, use your head. Are they visiting for a short time? It's probably a vacation, a work trip, or to see friends and family. Don't reach out expecting them to move their entire trip for you.

From what I've heard, this is a pretty typical experience for women & couples on these kinds of subs. I understand that for some it can feel like a significant NEED (I have an extremely high sex drive & severe social anxiety, so I can emphasise with the struggle), but no one should be making people uncomfortable because they want to have sex.

The sad part is that the people that need to see this probably won't open the post...

Be better, people.