Hello and good luck (I type a lot)!

I am going to try and keep this as short as possible but I'm one of those people who sees too much in the subtleties and details, and loves to give a lot of 'context' to a story. So, to level with you, this is probably going to be a bit of a read...

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My wife was my first 'non-monogamous' partner (as in, she was the first person I ever dated while I was in a 'primary' relationship), she became my lover, my best friend, my partner, my wife, and the 'sun' to my 'galaxy'. Despite being my first non-monogamous partner, she herself is monogamous (yes she accepts that I am non-monogamous). For the first few years of our relationship I decided not to practice non-monogamy, however, roughly two years ago we spoke about it and I began searching for a partner. I, being kinky AF and having some experience with submissive and masochistic partners, decided to also explore further down that rabbit hole (my wife while very open minded and hedonistic isn't overly interested in all of the same things I am). So during this time apart I was also discovering myself as a 'Dom' and exploring many aspects of BDSM with my (now) ex-partner.

Due to professional events at this time my wife and I were forced to live apart, it was initially expected to be for roughly six months, so my finding a partner happen to line up with us being apart. It was difficult to 'open' up while at a distance but despite a few emotional evenings we managed to do so fairly well. It also helped that the partner I found, while we ultimately split, was an amazing person who really helped both my wife and I in many ways. To make matters worse, due to world events and the beginning of covid, the original six months turned into almost a year and a half (with visits). One amazing and unexpected thing that occurred during that time was that my wife, during one of her visits, 'played' with my ex sub and myself. She had never had that type of interaction with a female but found that she enjoyed it more than she expected.

So, to bring us back to this post...

My wife is coming back next week (yay!) and we have decided that we are interested in meeting a kind, honest, open, kinky, sensual, funny woman or couple that would be open to helping her explore her bi-ish side, while also interested in some kink play to help 'bridge the gap' between my and my wife's experience level. I suppose 'on paper', a 'switch-y' female, or couple with a Domme female and sub male, would be ideal but I find it is far more about the individual(s) involved. In other words, there is no 'perfect' match, if you're interested write a bit about yourself (yourselves) and what you are looking for.

Rather than type a physical description it would be a pleasure to just exchange pictures should we have shared interest, while not Ken and Barbie my wife and I are often complimented on our looks. We do not have a particular physical criteria but do tend to prefer people who try to maintain good health.

Him: Incredibly passionate, emotional, observant, kinky, idealist who has had a myriad of surprising experiences in his life. A person of strong dualities (for example: loving, gentle, sensual, empathetic, and nurturing. However, also rough, sadistic, and primal among other things). Heavily focused on growth and evolution, he is always looking for a way to be a positive contribution to the world. He has high expectations of himself and others (working on that ^^;).

Her: A dryad in human guise. Innocent, kind, honest, open, curious, and thoughtful. A person who genuinely cares and wants what is best for everyone. Has a lot of creativity and drive in life and constantly finds her own path. Coming from a conservative background she is perhaps a little innocent, or at least appears to be, but with a devious mind. Despite appearances, undoubtedly the 'strength' of the relationship.

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With that you have completed your reading assignment for this week, thank you for your attentiveness, and should you have any thoughts, opinions, or questions feel free to send a message and we can discuss them.
(Sorry for the long post, thanks for hanging in there)

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Best wishes.

Be safe, and have fun!