I haven't put myself out there for a while, reddit has been hit and miss and I'm not into dating apps... but I'm going to take a wild chance and put it out there and see if something comes of it. I'm looking to meet someone who wants real connection, mentally and physically, for something ongoing (open/enm friendly) and hopefully more meaningful then a hookup.

I'm a hard working professional in a senior/management role. I am an independent and educated man with a grip on reality, no manbaby vibes. Former hospo and foodie.

I have had a wild side but am smoke free, currently alcohol free and 420 friendly (script) - not a stoner. Am very high functioning, stay healthy as much as i love a good nap, lol. Broad/tall average build but keep fit and active. Handsome, clean and hygenic.

I'm a lover not a figher. Caring, affectionate, respectful and was raised to treat women right. Having said that, I'm not a pushover or a defeatist. Emotionally aware, self aware and will call shit as i see it. If you're looking for an 'alpha' or even think that way - jog on - i have a healthy disdain for bro culture and male entitlement.

Little bit of an introverted extrovert - bit nerdy, current affairs enthusiast, love social time and getting out, nature and beach but have a limit and love my cosy home time and enjoy my own company. Bookworm, casual gamer, music lover/vinyl junkie, plant dad, food and wine lover. Dark and jaded humor, love a good laugh and don't take myself too seriously.

Sex positive. Kink friendly. Exlpored and experienced - sensual and not afraid of intimacy, but also not afraid to get thirsty and let the libido go. Bit of a deviant and want to be with someone who's the same - yes, sex is important and apart of it.. I'm not just looking for a friend.

Am looking for a curvaceous, intelligent, affectionate, independent and generally excellent (female) human to explore and share time with. 25-37 ideally but not a deal breaker. Physical attraction and chemistry is as important as intellectual connection - would be great to have shared interests and hobbies/likes (especially food).

I'm not afraid of people who have lived a life, and everyone has their shit to deal with... but i don't want to be your psychologist either haha.

Happy to chat, swap a pic or two, drink coffee, get to know each other and see where it goes.

DMs open - if the post is up, I'm probably still looking, unless i get downvoted to hell for writing a novel haha.