I think we're probably all tired of dating. Online dating has been like going through job applications and interviews, and the lack of something seemingly "natural" has been difficult. On the plus side, I've made a lot of friends along the way which has been nice (sort of unexpected, but just people I can hang out with), but truth be told it hasn't been what I've been seeking.

To put it bluntly, I'm looking for more of the physical part of things. The part that sets an intimate relationship apart from just a friendship. Perhaps it seems juvenile or backwards, but quite frankly it's been more fruitful when that's been just made upfront, rather than having roundabout way of not getting anywhere.

I'm looking for a friend with benefits or situationship with the hopes that maybe it can grow into something more; something that starts off more physical and intimate, where we can both release and let go and just have some fun. Where we can take out time on figuring out the future without rushing it. Maybe we have a few laughs on the way. I would love for it to become something long lasting, but I really want to be honest about that physical portion upfront.

About me: 40 year old Asian man, tall (6'1"), in shape (exercise regularly). Stable white collar job, plays music, enjoy reading, have a pet and houseplants that are all doing well, enjoys a nice time out for lunch or dinner, can hold my end of a conversation. Very talented with my hands and tongue in more than a few ways.

Looking for: A confident and kind woman that is looking for someone to just have fun activities with, including those in the bedroom. I'm pretty flexible on race though my preferences have mostly been with white women. I do prefer height-weight proportional (e.g., thin, average, fit, curvy in the right places), and that you be local (in the DC/DMV area), also ddf. I'm also not one to judge people's situations, and can and will be discreet.

Hope to hear back.