Thanks for taking the time to read! What I’m looking for seems to be a little against the grain judging by many of the posts I’ve seen and responses I’ve gotten in the past so I’m trying again and being as explicit as possible about what I am seeking and what I’m not.

About me: I am 38 years old, white, 6’3” tall and chubby (but on a weight loss journey). I have brown hair and green eyes, wear glasses, and have both tattoos and facial hair. I live in Western Washington State, nearest to Everett.

My interests include Stephen King books, foreign travel, woodworking, and being in nature. I also enjoy nerdier pursuits like video games and table top roleplaying games. I’m quiet and unassuming on the outside, but once I open up I can be the life of the party. I love to laugh and make people laugh. I’m emotionally sensitive, intellectually curious, and nonjudgemental. I’m also college educated and professional when the circumstances require it. If we get to it, I’m also a little kinky but not at all pushy, and an extremely giving partner.

Now to some house keeping:

First, I do not have 24/7 availability to chat, as much as I’d love to. I am married in a dead bedroom, and while we don’t have sex, I still respect my wife enough to give her my undivided attention when we are together. This means that on days when she and I are home together, my responses will not be as quick. However, it also means that when you and I are together, you will have my undivided attention. Thursdays are my best days for chat, with intermittent availability on other weekdays, and the weekends are my best days for meetups (Thursdays also possible with some planning).

Second, I am not looking for a wife surrogate. I am mostly happy in my marriage and I am not looking to drastically change my living situation. A FWB that I can chat to and hang out with a couple times a month would be perfect. I hope that you will feel the same way. Stimulating conversations, inside jokes, sharing memes, cuddling, and good sex are what I’m after and I hope we can find that together. Love and tenderness are not only for spouses. I’m a great supporter and love to cheerlead the people I care about so don’t be afraid to lean on me for that as well. I’m told I give good advice!

Third, I cannot host. I can travel and I am also open to booking short term hotel stays or car play.

Finally, I am open to a diverse range of ages, races, relationship types, abilities, and body types. Beauty comes from within and good chemistry/connection transcends everything else.

Thanks again for taking the time to read. This will remain up until a friend has been found. If anything appealed to you, reach out and I’ll respond as soon as I’m able. Hope you have a great day!