Hi Reddit,

I'm a 37 yr old white male, tallish (6'1), slim and of average looks with pale skin, brown hair and green eyes.

I work a professional role in tech and am into art/design, music, naps, beers, bikes and dining out / exploring Melbourne. Pretty relaxed, chatty and I think I have a half decent personality but i guess that's not up to me to decide. I have a workspace in the city and choose my own schedule so am down for catching up / ditching work for day plays whenever! I also love a mid week drink or two to break up the week.

What i'm looking for? Well i guess a FWB type situation. I am not much of a one night guy because i love slowly building up to kinky plays over time and learning what each other likes so yes that would be good. Love that feeling of being totally at ease with a someone feeling free to express needs, kinks and any fantasies openly with each other.

I don't have any hard must have's. But i guess i'd just hope we can get along well as I enjoy the hands as much as the bangs. By that I mean I enjoy aftercare such as cuddling up and chilling after sex, napping, chatting or listening to music together in bed while we debrief. I'd love to have something fun and easy that is a total escape from reality and the daily grind, where it's only about relaxing, rejuvenation and making each other feel amazing.

Sexually I’m an open book and would definitely try anything once within limits. I enjoy toys, giving/receiving anal play, restraints, light bdsm and adore lingerie and dress ups.

Only seeking casual ongoing but if the right person came along i wouldn’t say no to more if there was a connection, but not looking to force something. I prefer when things happen organically in that department.

I find the 'what i offer' part the most difficult because all i offer is me. Yeah I’m a dork but I’m also a passionate and communicative playmate who is not flakey or time poor. I can be available to meet your needs when you want me and am open to exploring any kinks. The primary focus of this would be our combined enjoyment and a bit of escapism.

Well yeah that's about it, please send me a message if you think you may be keen.