What I am looking for: I am looking for a natural female that is wanting a fwb that has a long term arrange with no strings attached. I want to find someone that that I can have kinky fun with behind close doors where we can be open and completely honest with each other. I need someone that I can connect with on a physical and mental level. Most importantly I want to be able to be friends outside of the bed room, someone I can trust and will be a loyal friend. I have friends that I play with but I feel that I cannot call them friends outside of the bed room if that make sense I am wanting to find someone to fill that gap. Ideally I would like to find an Asian girl as it might be easier for us to connect if we are from the same background but this is not a deal breaker.

About me: I am a 37yo Chinese guy who is reasonably fit and work in a professional role that is highly stress role. This is part of the reason I'm in the lifestyle as I use this as a way of stress release. In my normal life I am fairly quite and reserved. I like to watch all sorts of movies, watch basketball(NBA), eat out and I also enjoy cooking. I am a caring and honest person, you can say I am a very loyal friend and will do whatever I can when a friend needs my help and I expect my friend to do the same for me as that is what friends are meant to do for each other. I have been in the lifestyle for over 10 years and have seem, meet and done a lot of interesting things. There has been some really good experiences and some really bad but I have never regretted any of it as that is life you take the good and the bad otherwise things will be boring.

You: You are a natural female that looks after yourself and take pride in what you do. I am open to ladies of all legal age as I see age as just a number. I prefer someone who is slim/curvy, be a bonus if you are asain but not essential. I don't mind if you are single or partner just as long as we are on the same page and have mental connection that is all that I ask for. Ideally you are adventurous behind close doors and open minded to trying out everything. Just keep in mind this is a friendship not a relationship, but I do want you to be a loyal friend.