Over the last month i have realized the pure pleasure in discussing any topic in depth and exploring my mind and logic and matching it against someone else's. There is something so incredibly fulfiling about the debate/discussion and having someone who's really interested in you and your thoughts, the bond that it grows and i crave more. I will discuss ANYTHING with no judgement. Anything between why dogs rule and cats drool (just kidding :P or am i? O.o) to why life can be so damned hard and why it seems to like to smack us around a bit, to sexuality and why human beings seem so afraid to embrace that side of them and just have fun, which is something i'm rather passionate about if that interests you, and anything in between.

I am truly accepting of any topic, and you'll find it very hard to bother me or freak me out. You can't push me too far with your life struggles or your needs. I promise i can match them. I've had a truly hard life from abuse to foster care to homelessness and more and it has taught me i have no right to judge someone else's choices and instead i think about what made them who they are and if there is anything i can do to be there for them. Safe to say life hasn't presented me with many opportunities for pleasure and i feel i'm ready for more. Through my 36 years life has kicked me in the side time and time again giving me what i have been told is a real maturity and a wealth of knowledge that makes me so happy to share.

I thrive when i see others succeed and enjoy their life. When i can see that sharing my hard-fought experience has helped them to feel just a little stronger and perhaps able to help them enjoy their body.

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Things about me: i am a big star wars nerd (prefer pre disney but i know enough of the current era) equally big star trek nerd, a harry potter and lord of the rings fan (less than star wars/trek but i can enjoy them) a lover of psycology and how the human mind works with a depth of knowledge of humans and how we tick, a star wars video game youtuber creator, a music fanatic, a budding gym goer (trying to get into it and could use someone to stay on me and pump me up) and a deeply feeling thoughtful man. I struggle with mental illnesses such as bi-polar severe anxiety chronic depression ptsd from abuse and a learning disability among a few others so i understand you well if you struggle with any of these things

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I offer you all i can give you, pleasure, company, a shoulder, a confident and the love the quality of a golden retriever and only ask for someone to be interested in and helping each other grow stronger for more than a week. If you are reading this and go "oh no i don't want to discuss/do X" i need you to understand that nothing is required if it's too uncomfortable for you. We just discuss it, and you tell me what's up. We are adults and sure it can be hard, but we are able to be clear with each other. What it is you want out of a bond? Not really looking to date but anything else i'm good with and excited for. Just tired of spending my days wishing to have fun and be in connect with others.

I look forward to hearing from you from wherever you are in the world. Please understand i mean it when i accept you for you. Lonely angry depressed horny goofy whatever it is. All of these are valid emotions that can be discussed if you'd like to. Even if you don't choose to respond to this please know you deserve to be loved and respected. You are a good person deep inside even if you don't see it and you mean so much to people even if you don't believe it and believe me i know how that feels..