I suppose almost everyone here is looking for the same thing. Someone to get close to and get comfortable with. I’m no different if that’s the case. I want to find someone with their own quirks and weirdness. Someone who isn’t afraid to push me to be the best version of myself, and then expect the same back.

Broad strokes about me.

39, Single and no skeletons in the closet, lives in south Florida, has an IT-ish job, has a close crew of friends that stays as a small-ish group. Wants kids (sorry child free crew, we can still be friends though), ok if you have some already.

I don’t spend 24/7 playing dnd, civ, or watching the office. I’m happy doing any of them now and then but I like having a rounded life. I want the same from you. Home cooking together one night, out at the beach the next weekend together, off on a weekend adventure, pool party with our friends the next weekend, go see some concert together. You get the idea. I want to DO things. We don’t have to do everything together either. Please god no. You have a night you want to go to beach yoga with the girls? Have a blast, I’ll be here with some wine when you get back. Gonna go hit a hockey game with the boys and have a drink, see ya later. Tell each other all about it later.

You should want to move on from Reddit talks relatively soon too. I’m not going to spend 3-6 months getting feelings for someone and then have them ghost me (again). Not expecting us to move in with each other, but be able to text/call/whatever within… I don’t know, you tell me what you’re comfortable with. Yes, this is geared for someone who is willing to meet in person at some point. If you're just looking for chat buddies, that's fine, but let me know ahead of time so we're on the same page.

So what do I want from you? It's a short list. Be a (mostly) happy person, someone who isn't afraid to text randomly about anything and everything, someone looking for more at some point, have some interests that you’re willing to talk about.

Okay, long enough post. Shoot me a PM if you want to get to know each other.