First and foremost, my son is important if you dont like kids need not apply. I'm not asking you to be a parent i have that covered. being around my son will be very often so liking kids is important.

Background: I didn't grow up rich. i wasn't privileged enough to get everything i want. i worked hard for everything i have. i grew up moving around town with my family. my childhood was relatively normal. i dealt with the onslaught of bullies, made great friendships, lost a few friends, dealt with struggle, and pain. all of which shaped me into who i am. my childhood is nothing special. it wasn't until i was in my late teens that life picked up for me. the only thing worth noting at this moment is i am overweight (really trying to get that corrected), my last 2 relationships were abusive.

Personality: I've been told I'm laid back, down to earth, respectful, understanding, caring, calm (most times), sarcastic, witty, and a realist. i try to remain positive through life. no one is perfect that includes me. i can be stubborn, i get mad, i get upset just like everyone else.

Hobbies/likes: I am a self proclaimed nerd. i play video games like Fallout, CoD, MMO's, RPG's. I am also a fan of science, history, paranormal, conspiracies, and a multitude of movies and shows. i enjoy going out to eat (well not rn with covid), going to the beach, to museums, concerts, sporting events, bars, alcohol, dancing.

Strengths: Coordination, good memory, loyal, honest, supportive, and dependable person.

Weakness: Social interactions, self esteem, and worth issues, ADHD, fidgety, overweight, hate eye contact, stubborn.

Goals: Start a lasting relationship, have a home and a family, a well paying job, and have lots of fun and love in life.

Ideal Partner: Im into women who are more outgoing that take me out of my comfort zone. honest, loyal, down to earth, and laid back personality. gamer is not a must. i dont care about ethnicity, race, or appearance, and i hope to find a woman between 25-35, but its not a deal breaker. i prefer catholic/christian, but i wont judge and its ok if youre not.

People I hope will message me:

- Those who are looking for a meaningful, loyal and lasting relationship.

- Those who have goals and want to support and inspire each other

- Those who want to have fun together, and would like to get to know each other

- Those who value reason highly as well as having reasonable, inspiring conversations

- Those who would like to exchange some life experiences.

- Those who are looking for a reliable, constructive, non-shallow friend as well as offer to be one