Good afternoon! Hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving! Whether that be time with family or friends. I am looking for that special someone to build a future together with. I have met some wonderful people on reddit, but not quite the one for me yet. Still optimistic that she is out there somewhere.

Physically:

I am 32, living on the east coast. I am 5'7", Southeast Asian, mix of muscular/dad bod type physique. I work quite random hours in healthcare but try to workout at least 2-3 times a week.

About me:

As mentioned above, I work in healthcare in a fairly high stress environment. Despite being an introvert (ISFJ), my work requires a lot of social interactions which leaves me quite drained. I tend to be more of a homebody but do enjoy time out with my partner, less inclined to go to big social gatherings/bars/clubs.

Some of my hobbies include, but are not limited to: Trying various restaurants, cooking, hiking, weight lifting, PC building, spending time with family, video games, and binging shows (anime/TV - definitely recommend Arcane on Netflix or TLOU!).

Personality wise I am a good listener, considerate, patient, intelligent, open minded. Very much an open book.

I enjoy various types of music such as Kpop, RnB, instrumental pieces, Rap/Hiphop, Jpop, etc.

I am open to children, although I think the decision is ultimately up to the woman to decide since she does nearly 100% of the work in childbearing. But I lean more towards wanting kids than not.

If there's anything else you'd like to know all you have to do is ask!

Looking for:

I am looking for my future partner. Someone I can talk to about the little daily happenings, send good morning/good night texts to. Share what's bothering us or what's making us happy. Someone to enjoy the little things as well as the major life milestones with.

Someone who's hand I can hold as we walk through the various food markets of the world. Trying snacks and drinks from around the world before falling asleep while cuddling. Someone who would challenge me but also someone who compliments me so we can improve together.

I value those with good communication skills and a foundation of good values whether that be moral or family based.

I recent got back from Japan in August so if you need recommendations let me know! I'm looking forward to traveling to South Korea, Thailand, and Iceland to name a few.

While I am not looking for someone with any particular interests or hobbies, sharing some common interests would be nice. Video games are a large part of my life since I was young so it would be nice to share that passion with someone else.

I am looking for someone who is emotionally mature and able to communicate what they feel. I am the type of person who wants to understand your joy, happiness, frustration, anger, disappointment in hopes that I can either recreate it or fix what might be causing it.

Open to a LDR with the right person, but there needs to be plans for relocating one way or the other.

Misc:

Thank you for taking the time to read through my rather long post! I hope to hear from you. Feel free to DM me or send a chat. I would prefer to exchange pictures relatively soon after interacting so we can get the physical attraction aspect out of the way and not waste each other's time.