Hi everyone I would like what would be considered by most unorthodox relationship. To get the biggest thing out of the way, I would like what is called a female lead relationship. As a man I feel very secure in my masculinity, to the point where I don't feel emasculated if a woman leads, and I don't feel the need to tear other men down either. I feel that with such a role, as long as there is mutual respect and affection, I believe it can be a wonderful thing.

I would say I'm quite open-minded, and the most important thing in any relationship is that there are boundaries that stem from respect for each other which means that I won't be happy with anything that is done without discussion or behind my back and my partner can rest assured I'll treat her the same way. So with that out of the way, I'd like to introduce myself a bit.

Physically, I’ve got a face that’s very easy on the eyes, but I’d rather leave my face for when we get chatting.

I've got a charmed life overall, so whatever complaints I have are honestly small in comparison to what others go through. Nonetheless, we all have stressors. Therefore, I don't need drama, either from myself or from other people. Life is drama-free, and that's fantastic to say that.

To fill my time and creative expression, I love to:

Learn languages. I know a few and keep them up somewhat well. I speak several between a B2-C1 level. I also traveled for 5 years after school, so got plenty of adventures to share! And I'd like to see lovely places off the beaten path with you if you're getting close to my heart.

Dancing... I dance both Ballroom and Swing. Gotta say, I've got the knack for them both!

Go to the local sports centre, where I work on toning my slim body, as well as swim, and go to the sauna afterwards. While I'm not a fitness freak, keeping yourself somewhat active is a good balance and offsets sitting down all day.

Learn piano. I'm very much a beginner, but it brings out another part of me, just being able to lose myself in a musical instrument is a wonderful thing.

Buy clothes. I’ve got a lovely wardrobe, and it's really fun to wear colours and combinations that you never wore before!

Cook. Yes, I can cook, even though I don't always feel like it in the evening. I will eat anything, and sometimes, I just love a good, greasy and totally unhealthy Burger King meal! I also got a sweet tooth I can keep under control.

I'm fortunate to have a toned and slim body that doesn't gain weight!

I do something called the Sedona Method, that involves getting rid of negative feelings and coming into your natural positive state. I find it makes a huge difference in my life, and I would certainly recommend others look at it to deal with pain and heavy feelings. It has helped me hugely in regards to what they call "emotional intelligence" (even if I don't like that expression too much anymore).

I work in an office for a public body in a management position, and I love my job and my colleagues!

Like what you read so far? Just message, ideally with what you liked about the post, to get something going and help me roll off from there. Just saying "hi" kills it and offers nothing. Cheers.