Good morning. Here is a simple voice message. It is the bare bones basic example of this post summed up.

Though if you continue to read on, I will explain a bit more.

I am a 31 year old white male, single for a decade. I'm not counting I just remember impactful moments and events in my life. I admit it took me a very long time to heal, though I'm ready if I find the right person to try to be the best I can be, as well as help her be the best she can be.

I long for a relationship filled with support, care, love. Of two people choosing to be together and growing to support and care for one another. For the sole reason being they want to. Trying each day.

Though I have some tough walls and while somewhat of an empath (I think) I probably come off to bluntly. I also have really thick walls that I struggle to lower in the beginning.

If I'm being rude, I promise it's not intentional. Give me a few hours and I will realize it.

So about that title. I think those are 3 subjects that mean a lot to me and that I can bond easily with someone over. Anime was a very big part of my life growing up. I lived in Japan for 3 years thanks to the military. I have always loved to game. I grew up in a house alone for many years and watching tv movies and playing nintendo games like duck hunt SMB3 Legend of Zelda and games on the Sega Genesis, were part of my daily routine. I grew up with the gaming Industry. It kept me away from drugs bad decisions and crime. ( I don't smoke, drink or take anything other than when I'm sick)

While I'm not very enthused about the games industry as a whole. I do enjoy playing league, fighting games, JRPGS and From software games.

Finally I love to workout. Now I'm not in shape or fit at all. I let myself go for many many years due to that failed relationship earlier. I hated myself and committed to making a change. Working to become the person I want to be. I find dedication a wonderful trait and a very sexy one as well. So since last October I have been working out 4 times a week and I love my sessions. I want to incorporate more days and tried my hand at yoga and it felt great. I will build myself the best I can be. I would love to find someone who shares the same goals.

I love many more things such as animals. As a kid I loved to watch Steve Irwin and The Jeff Corwin Experience. I got my degree in Pre veterinary zoology, but I never had an in to vet school.
As pets I love cats and dogs. I've taken care of my parent's birds for years, and had plenty of fish and hamsters. My family has had rabbits and Guinee pigs. Ive been taking care of a Chihuahua for 14 years, and I love her very dearly. I want plenty more dogs and cats in my life.

I love mythology reading and stories. Its super fun. Dystopias especially. Though its scary to see how through the post modern era we have been tiptoeing to either a transhuman or an authoritarian dystopia. I love to grill and cook. I am no vegan, but I don't go out of my way to offend anyone who chooses to be so.

Politically I'm a moderate. I think both parties are awful for different reasons and that the government should be in the hands of its people's representatives working for the people. Not an almost nonfunctioning mess. I got a minor in political science as well.

Religiously Im agnostic. I was raised catholic but have been on my own spiritual journey since I realized the past sins of the Church. While the church does good in its communities its also very bad as we all know. Other Christian sects rub me the wrong way personally. Though I don't mind if my partner is religious. As long as she is accepting. I have had a few spiritual and supernatural experiences myself that helps me be agnostic.

I would love to eventually have a cis female partner and work towards a happy monogamous ceremony. ( the bot got me here)
I also would like to have children. I think I can be a fantastic dad who supports my children's interests and raise some more accepting hopefully good people in the world that change the world in some facet by achieving their dreams.

Lastly I enjoy sex. Not I'm looking for that and only that. I don't participate in Hook up culture at all. Sex is a very intimate, passionate, romantic, personal connection with someone I care about greatly. It is reserved for someone I truly care about and want to connect with. So I want to find someone who feels the same and revels in the connection we have while we have it. That being said. I am a dominate in the bedroom, so hopefully you enjoy being submissive.

As for what I look for in a partner? I want someone who this post resonates with. While you do not have to agree with everything. I want it to resonate with you and get you thinking.

Physically I am attracted to petite slim or fit women. If that does not describe you that is okay. Nothing is wrong with you. Be yourself. I think I blame it on my very toxic mother. She is overweight and I associated that I think.
This is pretty much my only physical preference.

Anyway. I think I owe everyone who got this far a thank you. As well as a coffee (hot chocolate preferred for me) and a cookie (Homemade chocolate chips?) for reading all of this.

My life is changing and I'm in a vulnerable place and I want to share some of my feelings as I am somewhat stoic when interacting with people.

As for my plans for the day? Get up make a breakfast of eggs and a banana. Work then go to yoga.

Have a great day.