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r/polydating

1,712 subscribers
It's like /r/PolyamorousR4R but new and a little different.

Moderators

Updated Dec 11, 2024
u/jce_superbeast Active
Added 6 years ago
Also moderates: r/polyadvice

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
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Rule 1: Bigotry or Intolerance

Absolutely no bigotry or intolerance. This includes (but is not limited to) attacks on anyone's gender or sexual identity, racism, sexism, slut shaming, poly-shaming, mocking, and victim blaming.

Posts and comments that contain any of the above, regardless of intent, will be removed.

First offense may be a warning, but depending on the severity and the user's history in the subreddit, it may be an immediate ban. Second offense is guaranteed ban.

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Rule 2: Slurs or Personal Attacks

Posts and comments are removed for use of slurs and for personal attacks. Certain slurs are grounds for an instant ban. Some words are automatically filtered by Automoderator, for the moderators to review. We understand that different words are slurs to different people, and that's why we review everything using real people.

Personal attacks on anyone are not allowed and may result in a ban.

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Rule 3: Trolling/Concern Trolling

Of course trolling isn't allowed. But specifically, concern trolling is a no-warning ban. This includes derailing of advice and support posts, and posting poly-shaming under the guise of "concern" or "just trying to help."

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Rule 4: Being a Jerk

This rule should be self-explanatory, but in case it isn't: being aggressive towards other posters and causing irrelevant arguments may cause your comments to be removed, and if you continue it may end in a ban.

Posting attacks on the poster or the poster's partners/situation in a support thread may be ground for an immediate ban.

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to r/polydating by Tree-Wolf
5 days ago
21 [M4F] Texas - recently poly and wanting to make a connection (preferably in person)
M4F
in Texas
to r/polydating by CorruptorInnocentium
1 week ago
44 [M4F/M] Looking for a Relationship open to LDR
M4F M4M
to r/polydating by No_Judgment_9028
1 week ago
43 [M4M] #England UK - Seeking a loving boyfriend.
M4M
in United Kingdom
to r/polydating by Prismwolf33
2 weeks ago
33[M4F] #Indiana Hi there! Make new friends. I'm open to the possibility of something more if the chemistry is right. Let's chat and see where it leads
M4F
in Indiana
to r/polydating by AffectionateLead858
3 weeks ago
30 [M4F] Ky/USA, searching for a princess type for relationship/conversation
M4F
in Princess, KY
to r/polydating by Reasonable-Air-2521
1 month ago
46 [M4F] #Wyoming / #Mountain West -- Overthinking poly trek nerd seeks new connections
M4F
in Wyoming, WY
to r/polydating by Fantastic-Prune6790
1 month ago
31 [M4F] Orlando,fl/ online looking for a connection
M4F
to r/polydating by Raiden64
1 month ago
[M4f] 29 Looking for a girlfriend
M4F
to r/polydating by Reasonable-Air-2521
1 month ago
46 [M4F] #Wyoming / #Mountain West -- Overthinking poly trek nerd seeks new connections
M4F
in Wyoming, WY
to r/polydating by ProbablyNotFBI90
1 month ago
34 [M4F] SC/Online
M4F
to r/polydating by throwaway231231513
1 month ago
30 [M4F] #Online or Northeast TN/VA/KY Intelligent, articulate, kinky, and sane nerdy male looking for a primary partner
M4F
in Tennessee
to r/polydating by kj645
1 month ago
32 [M4F] Anywhere - Thicc Bi Boi Seeks Nesting Partner yo have kids
M4F
to r/polydating by Experiment-Cycle
1 month ago
23 [m4f] #arkansas - married poly guy looking for real relationship
M4F
in Kansas
to r/polydating by TheHelpfulOtter
2 months ago
46 [M4F] #Houston Looking for my needle in a haystack
M4F
in Houston, TX
to r/polydating by No_Judgment_9028
2 months ago
43 [M4A] #England UK - looking for poly or enm relationship
M4A
in United Kingdom
to r/polydating by Raiden64
2 months ago
M4F 29 indiana looking for a girlfriend
M4F
in Indiana
to r/polydating by Followerofhel
3 months ago
32 m [m4f] looking for someone to talk to and vet, potnetially date
M4F
to r/polydating by Wonderful_Deal4648
3 months ago
28 [M4F] Seeking casual encounter/FWB Tampa, Florida area
M4F
in Tampa, FL
to r/polydating by No_Judgment_9028
3 months ago
43 [M4FF] #England UK #Anywhere - Seeking Loving Triad Relationship Dymanic
M4FF
in United Kingdom
to r/polydating by Experiment-Cycle
3 months ago
23 [M4F] Arkansas Looking for relationship
M4F
in Kansas
to r/polydating by Experiment-Cycle
3 months ago
23 [M4F] Arkansas Looking for relationship
M4F
in Kansas
to r/polydating by skinwalker666_
5 months ago
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to r/polydating by No_Judgment_9028
7 months ago
43 [M4M] #UK - want a loving Boyfriend
M4M
in United Kingdom
to r/polydating by No_Judgment_9028
7 months ago
43 [M4F] #UK Open to other Countries - Loving Guy seeking Loving Lady
M4F
in United Kingdom
to r/polydating by No_Judgment_9028
8 months ago
42 [M4F] #England #UK #USA - Seeking a Meaingful, loving, caring, affectionate, nuturing, poly Relationship with a Sweet Lady
M4F
in United Kingdom