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Hi, I'm Ali. 1/2 of the poly, swinger, kinky couple. So your interested in exploring poly. We're going to start slow. There will be a group chat. Maybe a couple of dinners as a group. When my partner feels comfortable enough with you, you can take me on your own. We will talk at home about how the dates go like 2 Jr. High girls. Once we start fooling around, I may write you in a story or two. (Code names). You will become my nesting partners metamour. The expectation is kitchen table. Group dates happen now and then because I like when my partners get along. We can progress at whatever speed feels comfortable. I may at some point give the title other partner. (Means we're continuing to see where things go.). I'll slowly split my time. You may get some of my overnights. A weekend now and then. I'll treat you like an equal in some ways. We'll keep coasting along. No pressure.
Whoa slow down. This is not me.... ok we part ways. Tried it and you didn't like it. We separate. This is simply like any other breakup.
hold up, you really like this. You want to stop splitting your time. You want to be more full time. This would be 4-5 years of coasting. (The kids all grown on any side). Welcome to polyandry land. I'm the new Kody brown. Fuck lds and popping out babies though. We get a bigger house. We do full time. Separate bedrooms. Custody of me at bedtime is negotiated. We will do some sort of ceremony. I'll find a white dress.
If your wanting Kinky poly more long term. We need to negotiate the slave or submissive contract 3 ways. When I'm with you, it can be a night, an overnight, a weekend. When I'm at your house, I follow your lead. Your rules and expectations. You can dress me how you want. Order my food at the resteraunt. Total control? Maybe. You can take me to parties and the dungeon (when my nesting partner is comfortable). Continue follow the polyamory guidelines.
This is my limit list. Anyone who says they don't have limits hasn't found them yet. https://fetlife.com/users/2408810/posts/6789168
If you made it this far, have a treat. https://fetlife.com/users/2408810/pictures/101784905
Comment or message me if interested. We can go from there.
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