There has been an uptick in reports and violations on posts and comments in the past few weeks. The mod team is working on clarifying some of these topics. I’ve also spoken privately about this with people involved and will continue to monitor the threads for violations.

I’ll state this openly for everyone...

As you all know, things are a bit hectic worldwide. I appreciate the people reporting what they see as violations, and the mods get to the queue as often as we can. It makes things a lot easier. I also appreciate the constructive criticism some people are providing, especially to newbies who are coming in to post.

We will be removing posts or comments that are, or become toxic or argumentative. Once it gets to that point, please feel free to report and disengage. There’s no reason to continue on down the rabbit hole of opinions on the topic of poly dating in this subreddit. That’s not what we’re here for.

Please feel free to PM members of the mod team with any questions or issues that need to be addressed. I appreciate everyone’s patience with this.