Hello, I am a married poly guy from the west. For the physical bio stuff, I have green eyes, a dark beard, and mostly bald head. Glasses are my thing over contacts. I have tattoos and wear either jeans and band shirts or sport jackets and brogue boots. I love music and doing a lot of creative work. I teach and cook and spend a lot of time with my close family and friends. I'm into movies and games and just inherited 14 goldfish. I like the concept of people, but I don't get close to too many. When I do, I am close for the long haul. My closest friends have been so for decades.

I've been on an extended dating break, but have been non-monogamous for almost nine years. I took the break due to being focused on some cool family and creative successes and opportunities. I am ready to start dating a little, but being in a small town I don't tend to engage in non-monogamy very openly. So online it is.

I am looking for someone specific and realize that sounds vague as hell. I have enjoyed meeting a lot of people or drifting at times, but I am at a point where even as a poly person I am content to be without another partner as much as to find someone to share some of life with. I'm good either way, but the unknown is exciting.

Politics and religion, I am very left and also very pagan or whatever the fuck you want to label it. I don't really believe in god but I have found peace in just kind of doing my own thing even if it is having a tipsy conversation with a moth. The truth is out there.

Physical traits, I keep in pretty decent shape. I like looking good and feeling sexy for a partner. I like talking on the phone or sharing pics of our day or a smile or whatever. As for spicy, I prefer a partner to set a sexual pace especially initially because it is easier to gauge consent and interest and enjoy it mutually knowing plainly what is desired. The internet is a giant question mark and I don't like vaguery. I am not timid by any means but appreciate honest open dialogue. Then have at it as much as you like.

I am a sucker for eyes and hair. Someone who has a vibe to the way they dress is always hot. Holding a conversation or making me laugh is hotter. Body type feels like a needed add as much as I added mine. All people are beautiful but not everyone has chemistry of course. I tend to be attracted to a spectrum of curvy or average slender. Confidence is the biggest aphrodisiac.

I am happy to share pics and verify however but am not going to add one to the post. Even if we never meet or talk, I hope you find what you've been looking for. Cheers redditors.