Looking for someone between the ages of 45 and 50, give or take 5 years or so, who is an honest communicator with a sense of humor that cares about the environment and loves all animals. Someone self-aware or is becoming so. More importantly, someone who doesn’t want kids or doesn’t want more kids. Other than that, be you, whom ever you are.

I’m 5’10”, slender, brown eyes, average looks, big smile, warm, funny, musical, tech savvy, and a supportive dad. I did the DNA testing thing and I’m half Native American but I keep my hair short.

I’m looking to meet new people and make genuine connections. I’ve been a doting husband and father who takes care of his responsibilities for over 13 years. I’ve had a stable, consistent career for years, have an amazing credit score, and I enjoy getting out and going on adventures in and around LA and abroad. I do prefer experiences as opposed to collecting material things. Currently working on purging my garage.

So, it’s been a dead bedroom for a few but a productive and functional home life for several years. I don’t wish to destabilize my family and prefer to keep my home life status quo. My now-platonic partner feels the same way and we’ve decided to date separately. It’s unconventional but we’re seeing how it goes. Finding someone in a similar situation would be cool or someone totally okay with my situation.

I need more social excitement in my life beyond the occasional stuff going on now with friends or coworkers. And they don’t need to know my partner and I have evolved our marriage.

I eat health, usually organic and gluten-free but would appreciate a fun and polite individual to join me for an occasional Carneys or Casa Vega. Or, I don’t care, a fun sports bar? Something upscale? Or what’s your favorite Indian spot? I’ll try anything once! lol

Seriously: Do sweet, sincere open minded females, read these ENM posts? Do you keep it light and positive? Can you get deep and introspective? Are you a homebody at heart?

Let’s meet up in public a few times before either of us hosts. I’m more interested in developing a trusting friendship and social vibe and much less interested in hooking up with someone I just met. To be clear, I’m not here for sex or a quick fling that’s over before it starts. I wish for a long-term friend.

Because of this I don’t really care what your physical type is. I truly believe anyone can grow on anyone. I like to cuddle and be affectionate so having some extra is not a problem and actually preferable. I don’t care what your actual (legal) age is if you’re older or younger. Just as long as we can share cultural references and get most of them. I don’t care if you’re a parent or not - Just know I don’t want anymore kids as previously stated.

I’m only hoping to find a compatible vibe, sincere kindness, an open mind and, hopefully, many laughs rather than any specific physical type, or look, or taste.

Speaking of taste: Getting takeout and going to a park can be nice. lol Besides eating, there are many things to do in LA. Let me know if you’re curious.

Staying in is perfectly fine as some of my hobbies include playing music, watching new movies or shows or YouTube, and casual gaming among other things.

If interested in learning more, please DM a few details and share a favorite song so I can give it a listen and know you’re not a bot.