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Has anyone had a partner go from keeping poly a secret, to not? Or maybe you did this?
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I’m just not sure how long I can do this double-life, sneak-around thing.

I’m not sure I’m ready to not.

I don’t like dating someone in secret, dropping hand-holds when walking down certain blocks. I get it. But I’m not sure about it.

Edited to add: myself and my husband, my boyfriend and his wife - we all know, it’s all open and ethical - just not public. We are not at all publicly poly and I’m wondering if this can work long-term. It’s wearing on me.

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